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Quotes
Insightful Words by Bert Hellinger
The exact words that return the weight to where it belongs — and set your place free.
This page is dedicated for Bert Hellinger and his insightful words that keeps us all grounded and balance.
"Even when it does not remain, it's beautiful that it was"
~ Bert Hellinger
"The secret of success is that the heart is large and the mind is small."
~ Bert Hellinger
"Whatever is alive is incomplete and in the process of becoming. In order to stay living one must accept and respect incompleteness."
~ Bert Hellinger
"There is no growth without guilt."
~ Bert Hellinger
"To agree to life as it is, is to find peace."
~ Bert Hellinger
"It's very difficult to define the truth. It's very easy to feel it."
~ Bert Hellinger
"Helping requires that we have respect for the destiny of the other."
~ Bert Hellinger
"The family group 're-members' the excluded, the ignored, the forgotten, the unrecognized, the dead. When a legitimate member of the group is shut out, someone in a later generation must compensate for this injustice by suffering a similar injustice."
~ Bert Hellinger
"How does a facilitator arrive at the right sentence? When a constellation is set up it creates an energy field. By entering she becomes bound up in it and from this connection is able to see what may lead to a solution. She would not be able to arrive at a solution sentence if she remained outside the field."
~ Bert Hellinger
"Until you are willing to be confused about what you already know, what you know will never grow bigger, better or more useful."
~ Bert Hellinger
"Success has the face of the mother."
~ Bert Hellinger
"Sometimes the currency of belonging in our systems is suffering. We may have conflicting loyalties. One to our own personal success and happiness and the other to the suffering in our systems. When the fear of exclusion from or betrayal of our system is too strong, we may struggle to succeed."
~ Bert Hellinger
"When we try to avoid what is unpleasant and confrontational, we lose precisely what we want to keep: our dignity and freedom. Only those who confront the dark are connected to their roots and the sources of their strength."
~ Bert Hellinger
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