Transformational Stories
Read how others have navigated their healing journeys and found clarity through Shift Constellations. Every story is unique, yet all share a common thread of transformation.
Run out of words to describe how huge the impact of Family Constellation on my life. Said good bye to my fear of abandonment, rejection and emotional unavailability through the sessions. My relationships, career and money all has shifted totally.
Thanks to Mbak Silvia for helping me throughout the years I got a chance to experience transformation on many levels and life stages.
Ley Lani Soeprapto
My dearest Silvia… I have so much to say about you. Working with Silvia through family constellation sessions has honestly been mind-blowing. The shifts that happened after each session were so big that I ended up wanting to learn family constellation myself. She truly inspired me to become a practitioner. I came to Silvia with several challenges from relationship issue, my dream of turning pro as a bikini athlete and even stuff like acidity. She supported me through all of it. And what amazed me most is that with Silvia, things usually shift in just one session, maybe two at most.
I’ve been into healing for a long time and tried many different modalities, but the one that really touches my soul is family constellation. Because of my experience with Silvia, I actually signed up for the course. That’s how powerful this work has been for me. Silvia is an incredible practitioner. She’s knowledgeable, intuitive, calm, and genuinely kind. She makes you feel safe, comfortable, and truly seen. I’m so grateful for her and the work she does.
Chaya Keswani
My Family Constellation sessions with Silvia opened parts of me that I didn’t even realize. I came in not knowing exactly how FC works, but the experience spoke directly to my subconscious.
During the workshop, something very deep surfaced — especially when I represented the role of a little boy or parent figure in someone’s constellation. The emotions felt so real that I knew they connected to my own history. After the session, I was reminded of something I had forgotten for years: I actually had good memories of my father. That alone was healing for me.
Through the constellation, I recognized that I was carrying pieces of my father’s own childhood pain — his loneliness, his struggle as a 14-year-old and even his silence. Somehow, I played his role without realizing it. Silvia guided me with clarity, gentleness. I no longer wake up drowning in unexplained sadness. I no longer feel as alone as before. And I understand whose pain I was carrying — and that it’s safe to let it go. This process helped me reconnect with myself in a way I didn’t expect. It was subtle, deep, and very healing.
Lany Teguh
Every Family Constellation session brings unexpected insights. Silvia has supported me through this method since 2020, and each session consistently offers a fresh perspective that expands my understanding and awareness.
Dyani Gobel
I first came to Family Constellation not really knowing what to expect. I wasn’t sure how it worked, but I was open to trying. The experience surprised me in a good way; that helped me see things about my family and myself that I wasn’t aware of before. Once I started understanding those things, I began to think differently, and slowly, real changes started to happen in my life.
What I appreciate most is how it helped me make sense of my family’s past and how it shaped me. It gave me a clearer picture, and that clarity brought a lot of relief. The process is hard to explain in words, but the effect it had on me was very real.
I’m genuinely grateful that our paths crossed. The insight I gained has stayed with me, and it has made a meaningful difference in the way I see things now. All I can say that I’m really glad I gave it a chance, because it helped me in ways I didn’t expect; and if anyone is curious about why certain things keep happen to them, maybe family constellation can help and heal you like it did for me.
Stella
I’ve had about 5 or 6 Family Constellation Workshop sessions with Silvia, and each one has been different, deep, and filled with outcomes I could never have imagined. Every session has helped me chart my life with more clarity, remove obstacles I didn’t even know were there, and move in a clearer direction.
With Silvia, something shifts — your wishes, desires, and goals start to feel more attainable, and things begin to show up in your life in ways you wouldn’t have thought possible.
Sanjay Bhojwani
Working with Silvia through family constellation sessions has been incredibly healing for me. I discovered so many blind spots and patterns I had been unconsciously carrying out of loyalty to my family. With her guidance, I was able to face parts of myself I’d avoided for years and disentangle from ancestral dynamics that weren’t mine to hold.
I didn’t come with expectations to change anything external—I simply wanted to heal. But as I transformed internally, my relationships shifted naturally. I now communicate with my mom in a much more open and loving way, and I’ve healed resentment and disappointment toward my dad, which has also strengthened my relationship with my boyfriend. I’ve begun cultivating a more compassionate and loving relationship with myself, and I finally feel like slowly but surely coming home to who I truly am.
Tannimara Budiarti
It’s hard to explain in words, you really need to be IN, and feel the dynamics that happen in a Family Constellation session. I cannot tell you about my family problems, but what I can say is, after attending a few times, I felt HUGE emotional releases, it was like a huge burden was being lifted out of my soul. I had a clearer mind, and the most important thing is that I had improved relationships. Better communication with my family (and they weren’t even participating in the workshop).
I also had a better understanding that we have to break cycles of trauma, dysfunction and repeating patterns that are unknowingly passed down through generations - and this method will make the root causes visible.
By acknowledging past pain and unresolved conflicts, I felt emotionally healed. I also felt compassion and forgiveness, I could also let go of my resentment, and most importantly, was able to process my grief.
It’s just like watching a korean drama tv series and it’s all about you!
It’s truly mindblowing! 🌟🌟
Highly recommended. Thanks to Silvia, a great faciliator indeed ❤️👍🏻
Ninok Wiryono
I never heard of Family Constellation until I found out one of my closest friends joined one of the sessions. Frankly, I was skeptical at first. I was in denial and did not want to believe that things in my life doesn’t feel right. However, there’s this burden that had been weighing on my shoulders for so long.
I decided to give it a try and had my first session with Silvi. The emotions that surfaced were intense, and in that moment I finally understood the reason behind the distance between my mother and me. That clarity brought me peace, and now our relationship is growing in the way I’ve always longed for.
I’m still on the path to healing, but I’m glad I found Silvi. She is not only a great listener and advisor, but has also become an even greater friend. A lot of us unknowingly have unbeknownst trauma. If you find feel heavy burden in your heart, take the first step and try Silvi’s Family Constellation program. You don’t have to face this alone, but you have to take the first step to heal yourself.
Amanda A.
I did my first online session with Silvia in July because I was struggling with jealousy and wanted to understand where it came from. I don’t remember exactly what the blockage was, but the shift became clear later — I felt so much more peace toward my brother, and he became noticeably closer and warmer with me as well. I’m so grateful. Thank you, Silvia.
Doris G.
Sangat bagus dan memberi pengalaman baru atas segala emosi yang tidak kita sadari. Highly recommended
Anggia Hapsari
She’s straight forward, to the point and very helpful. I think, for this case, Silvia is the right person for me.